Breaking up is hard to do...but sometimes it is necessary to become the person you desire to be. This applies to all relationships in your life.
How do we really know when a relationship is over? If we don't make a move away from a relationship that is no longer serving us, is it holding us back? I think you know the answer to this question. Who would you be if you weren't in this relationship? Who could you be if you weren't in this relationship?
Only you have the power to make yourself happy, nobody else can do that for you. If you aren't happy, take a look around your life and find out what, or possibly who, isn't fulfilling you. What is it that might be holding you back? If you are in a relationship that doesn't make you smile, maybe, just maybe, it's time to move on.
A quote comes to mind as well from the poet/author/speaker David Whyte…”anything or anyone that does not bring you alive is too small for you”.
So, what are you waiting for? Make the decision to fill your world with the beautiful people in life, those who inspire you and support you. Choose people who are positive and uplifting, not those who are doubters, haters and negative thinkers. Surround yourself with people whose energy is vibrating at a higher frequency and this will most certainly facilitate positive changes in all areas of your life.
You only have this one life to live now and I am sure you want to be happy. Letting go of people who don’t serve your highest good opens the doors and windows in your life to those that do. When it is time to let go of the old and bring in the new, it’s not a sad time, it is simply a time for change. Change needs to occur for us to grow and prosper. When we make these life changes, it signals to the universe that we are ready for something bigger and more exciting and that we are moving forward on our soul purpose path.
When it becomes time for you to let go and release these relationships, make sure you send them off with gratitude, showing them how grateful you are for what you have learned from them and how you have grown as a person. For if it weren’t for them, you wouldn’t be who you are today and who you are today is what is shaping your future, as you become the best you can be.